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October 3, 2006

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We awakened to the sound of an owl this morning. It was 42 degrees with minimal wind. Our alarm was set for 4 AM, but around 3:15, Mom asked what time it was. I told her and she got up to light the stove to heat the camper a bit then went back to sleep. It was kind of her because it made the difference between my getting up with a feeling of comfort and my getting up with the bother of a cold camper. I committed to coming to life at 4 AM. Mom said that she would get up after my foot routine was complete. I took the half hour that is required to Band-aid and tape and pad the tender or blistered areas of my feet to prepare for the day’s walk. I keep thinking that I am on the verge of the perfect regimen that will make my foot comfort dream come true for the remainder of the trip. For now it really is still a dream. Mom got up around 4:20 and completed her morning routine. It simplified our morning activities to be leaving the camper up and in place. At 4:30 Mom called out to Gary to awaken him and to remind him to take his morning medications. By 5:15 we were all in the car and heading to Arizona to begin our morning walk. We stopped at a diner on the way to get three cups of coffee. We chatted for a few minutes with the diner staff about our walk and our appreciation for their town.
We drove east of our starting point and noticed a cell signal on Mom and Gary’s phones. We pulled over to communicate quickly with our families. We drove on to our start point and had feet on the ground walking at 5:55 AM Arizona time (6:55 AM New Mexico time). We crossed the Arizona-New Mexico border with a bit of ceremony and pictures. It felt good to mark our progress with a state- line milestone. The sunrise was fabulous.
There were a few places where a cell signal was available so we made a few more calls. Cell phone signals are so intermittent in this part of the country that we tend to make a series of phone calls when we have a signal just to check in with our support network. It is a very different atmosphere for us when we can communicate with the outside world and when we cannot.

We watched a couple of animals playing in the field. They weren’t elk, but some other similar looking animal. They were smaller than elk. We tried to capture a few pictures, but timing was off. We arrived at the car 5 miles from our starting point at 8 AM (Arizona time). Mom had been watching the wildlife as well. During the break we did some videotaping of the “reindeer games” or whatever one calls the rituals we were witnessing. The animals seemed to be uninhibited by our observation.

During the break we talked about the wear and tear on Gary’s shoes and the merit of arch

supports as a mechanism to redistribute his weight more evenly in his shoes. We drew no conclusions and moved on to other topics. I dozed off a bit as Mom and Gary talked about politics. During conversations when they are covering controversial topics, I tend to stay in the observer role. I figure the last thing the discussion needs is a third opinion.

The remainder of the walking day was marked by Gary’s resolve to walk each 5 mile leg from start to finish without stopping. He was walking with confidence and a brisk stride. He averaged a 2.7 miles/hour pace throughout the day. The temperature was moderate (< 90 degrees) and there was an occasional breeze almost like a tailwind. The road was infrequently traveled so there was no significant traffic noise. This was a sharp contrast to the experience on I-40. We occasionally heard a crow, but no other birds. There were several cow pastures. As we have seen in the past, when we walk by the cows, most of them look up throughout the time we are passing their field. It’s kind of fun to imagine what the cows are thinking.

We finished walking 20.4 miles at 4:15 PM New Mexico time (3:15 PM Arizona time). This was a significant record for Gary because we started today at 6:55 AM New Mexico time (5:55 AM Arizona time). It took 9 hours and 20 minutes to complete the walk. That included actual walking time and break times. In the past, the fastest time that Gary completed the walk with actual walking time and breaks has been just under 12 hours. He improved by nearly 3 hours today. He seemed to bask in the accomplishment and we “high-fived” his success. He is finding reserve and confidence that he didn’t even know he had and is translating that into strength every day.
Mom in "documentary" mode
At the end of the walk today, Gary handed Mom a bouquet of wildflowers he had picked for her. She was touched. I think she saw it as an indicator that we have moved past merely surviving the daily work demand of walking and managing the logistics of acquiring water, gas, and access to shade and that we have moved into a time when the journey will invite each of us to meet our fullest potential.

We marked our stopping place about 15 miles west of Quemado, NM and drove into that town. The conversation was notably light as we drove slowly through the town checking out the available resources. We stopped at a Grocery and Picnic Supply store to get water, paper towels and ice. We asked a number of people outside of the grocery store which of the restaurants in town was best. The answer was Chuck Wagon Café Mexican American Cuisine.

We were pleased to find that they served traditional

breakfast-type foods all day. Gary spent a few minutes visiting with a man in the back of his truck who was playing a guitar and singing. Gary played the guitar for a while. Mom and I listened for a few minutes then went in to settle into a place in the restaurant. The three of us planned ahead to order two meals and split them three ways. We made this decision to be frugal with our dollars and in recognition that if one were to eat a typical full restaurant portion, it is more fuel than the body requires for a day’s work. We talked with our server, Paul Templeton, who agreed to bring an extra plate. We ordered a cheeseburger with french fries and a ham and cheese omelet.
After Paul put our order in, we talked with him about Gary’s journey and about Fast-5. Paul told us about one of his family members who may benefit from the Fast-5 lifestyle. We gave him a book to read and to share. Gary joined us in the restaurant shortly before our food arrived. We shared the meals three ways with the exception of the generous serving of french fries.
We each had a reasonable portion of french fries and took many of them to-go to have for another day’s break-fast. As we were preparing to leave, Gary looked out of the window near our table toward our car.

He said, “Mary, did you put the car in park?”

Mom and I both looked out of the window and reviewed all of the details that provided assurance that the car was in park and unmoved since we had walked away from it. I said, “You took the keys out of the ignition, right Mom?” She said yes. Mom and I continued to look out of the window.

Gary said, “Doesn’t it look like it moved?” I said, “You can’t get the keys out of the ignition unless it is in park. Mom took the keys out, so it must be in park.” Mom and I studied the car to detect movement or some other thing that might make Gary’s statements make sense to us. Gary said, “I always say…”

At that moment, I predicted that he was going to advise us not to trust the park position of the gear mechanism and to routinely put on the

parking brake, but no…he finished his sentence saying. “…never take your eyes off of the fat man.”

Mom and I both turned toward Gary. He had the biggest grin on his face I have seen since the day we started walking. He was holding a french fry up in his right hand.

He said, “While you were looking that direction, I could have cleaned out this french fry bundle,” as he gestured toward the to-go box. We laughed out loud – a lot. We kept laughing and Gary kept laughing. He was showing yet again that he is modifying his relationship with food. He is able to laugh at temptation to eat when he is not hungry and he is able to feel his strength in the new power he has developed during his journey. It is a power that many Fast-fivers describe. I was happy to see him demonstrate it.

Gary with Paul Templeton at the Chuck Wagon Cafe
We finished our departure preparations and took a picture of Gary with Paul Templeton. We said our goodbyes then headed off to our campsite. We didn’t have a cell signal, so we sadly couldn’t call our families. Mom said she would drive until she gets a cell signal tomorrow after Gary and I start walking and she will make the calls to reassure folks that all is well.
Back at the camp, we settled in. Gary tested the wiring to identify some issues requiring optimization. We developed a plan to address those issues as soon as possible. Mom took our dirty laundry (hers and mine) and made it clean at the local laundromat. She filled our water jugs at the local service station where we rented the camper site and she paid the attendant for one more night here in this RV park.

We plan to stay here tomorrow night then Mom will pull the camper along while Gary and I walk toward Pie Town on Thursday. Sometimes it feels like Mom has a magic wand. She has boundless energy. She routinely is making my life better out here.

She does my laundry, heats water for me to soak my feet in Epson salts or to wash my face or hair, gets groceries and supplies, fixes meals, empties the porta-potty (not at the same time as meal management), moves the camper to our next site or drags it along as we walk if the logistics require that, listens to my woes, keeps the debris swirl in the car and the camper from swallowing us alive, mails packages and postcards to my kids, maintains everything so that our car doesn’t die, and a million other things that aren’t coming to mind right now. She also offers her wisdom, her patience and her encouragement. I couldn’t imagine life out here without those resources. As I recall all of the advantages I have had in life, the advantage of having her as my mom is unsurpassed.

Gary settled into his tent and I continued to work on a journal entry here in the camper when Mom returned. She retrieved some supplies from the car and distributed them to Gary and me as needed. Gary watched a movie for a while on his computer in his tent. Mom and I settled in and had some mom-daughter bonding time. Soon I suggested that she had to sleep. She called out to Gary, “Gary, when my children didn’t figure out it was time for bed, I would send them there.” Gary said, “Does that mean I’m supposed to go to sleep now? How did you know I was still awake?” Mom said, “Moms know a scary number of things and, yes, it is time to sleep. 4:30 will come earlier than you prefer.” Gary said okay then I heard his computer shutting down.

Gary called out from his tent, “Mary, I think I need a bedtime story.” She said, “I can’t think of one.” I said, “I’ll tell you a bedtime story. There was a bunny that crossed the road and it got squished by a car. All of the other bunnies were smart enough to learn that crossing the road was not a wise choice to make and they lived happily ever after.” Mom said, “Yuck. That wasn’t a great story.”

Gary called out again, “Tomorrow night I want to hear the chapter that says if the bunny had insurance and whether or not the spouse and kids did okay.” We all laughed then said good night.

The next thing I knew, Gary was snoring on my left loudly enough that I could hear it through his tent wall and my camper wall (okay, it is just two pieces of canvas) and Mom was snoring on my right in her bunk. I guess that message is that it is time for all of us to sleep. I will comply. This has been the best walking day Gary has had since I met him. He is growing stronger every day and it is marvelous to be witness to his transformation into a restored, healthy man poised to inspire a nation to seek a healthier way of life.